Admin’s Rant: Tips for Fresh Gents

• Hey bros, I’m here to share a few nuggets of wisdom from my years of experience so you can dodge common pitfalls in the dating game. Check these out:

• Tip 1: Don’t Front Money Too Soon

  If you haven’t confirmed the relationship or started dating, avoid sending money upfront—you might end up dealing with a scammer. However, once you’ve established a genuine connection or officially started dating, offering financial support becomes more reasonable. In those cases, you can provide help gradually or as needed, as long as you’re sure about your partner’s intentions.

• Tip 2: Get Your Own Ride

  From what I’ve learned, having your own transport is a real game-changer. Relying on public transport or taxis for secret dates can feel super awkward—you might end up feeling like everyone’s watching you, turning a simple meet-up into a mini soap opera. If you can, roll in with your own ride so you can chill and enjoy your time without all that extra stress.

• Tip 3: Don’t Be Too Cheap on the Little Things

  When you’re just getting started, every little gesture counts. Your potential partner is watching how you handle even minor expenses. If you come off as overly stingy, it might give off the wrong vibe—especially if you’re a handsome guy with plenty of options. Show that you’re financially solid from the jump; on our scene, generosity often wins over looks. That’s one secret successful gents know!